STOP Dating and START Attracting WORKSHOP

stop lookingWhen: Monday, September 27th, 2010
Where:
616-736 Granville St., Vancouver, BC
Time:
7pm – 9pm
$35

STOP the search and start attracting what you want, in life and in relationships. Love is not difficult to find. Most likely, it is looking for you! You don’t have to spend years waiting for a perfect person. You are the perfect person!

Get clear on what you want from life and what you have to offer. Learn who you are towards yourself and how attractive you are as a partner.

It’s a magnetic effect: Like attracts like, this is why it’s very important to find out what is great and unique about you, and what a fantastic individual you are, so you can attract the person like yourself.

During this workshop you will
• Find out how attractive are YOU as a partner
• Learn how to enjoy life: Single or not!
• Improve your Self-confidence and Happiness
• Tap into your life goals through Future Self-Visualization.
• Find your unique Charisma
• Start attracting your best matches and send out the “NO GO” message to the rest!

Leave this workshop with your Attractor Factor working FOR you!


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Social Events with Vancouver Single Professionals

Hey, People-Who-mix-Business-and-Pleasure!

After our first Social at Serai, I talked to some people and we collectively agreed that we like Serai as a place for our social gatherings. It seems it’s an appropriate place for our group meetups.

Social Events with Vancouver Single Professionals

So, starting in September, we are going to have regular meetings at that friendly social club. Every last THURSDAY of each month is reserved for Vancouver Single Professionals!

Of course, we will have other occasional meetings (wine tours, picnics, art gallery tours, etc.), but I would like to spend more time in making our social gatherings more productive and valuable to everyone.

As part of this plan, I am going to invite different guests speakers to our meetings, who would give us some tips and insights in different areas: dating, communication, positive change…. and of course, business development.

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Your Relationship DNA

Your Relationship DNA


Still looking for the “great guy” your mom always wanted you to find? Wondering where you will find the “goddess of your dreams” who will love you for who you are?
Look no further! Quit searching. Cease your online shopping and snooping.

Your Relationship DNA

Until you re-create your internal sensors, you will most likely continue to attract the same selfish, lying, boring, sleepy, unfaithful, uncaring, inconsiderate, sexually stale, physically lazy, financially scalped and playfully challenged individuals you have always attracted. It’s in your Relationship DNA!

Relationship DNA

Your relationships are made up of what you consciously consider about a partner and what you subconsciously consider about yourself and the messages those thoughts communicate to others.

Like DNA, they are weaved together, and often what you don’t realize that what you want or crave for your own emotional wellbeing – is exactly what you are attracting!

So it won’t matter how many different guys you date, or how many different sites or services you try to find the right woman – until you know your own hidden agendas, you will – WITHOUT FAIL – continue to attract people into your life that will disappoint or hurt you.

Is There Something Wrong With Me?

No.

You have a unique history, life experience, family, and community of friends and influencers that have helped you become your distinct person. Along the way, you may have learned things by trial and error and not all your influences were positive. Typically we develop ways to overcompensate or avoid situations we find uncomfortable or even painful. These hidden mannerisms and fears are the very triggers that signal the same individuals to show up in your world, usually the people poorly suited to your conscious goals and romantic dreams.

It’s strange. The same personality types show up in different clothing, careers, towns, and social circles. They may present themselves quite different at the beginning of your friendship and yet, before long, you find yourself with the same hurts, same wounds, and the identical feeling of disappointment.

Your Emotional Life

We all need the emotional support of others. The expressions may vary, and the level of need fluctuate, but no one lives a healthy life without emotional connections.
If those emotional needs were somehow overlooked, neglected or poorly satisfied in your childhood, you will search for what you need – whether consciously or not. Some people appear “needy,” or “sensitive” or “aloof” as adults because for whatever reason they are lacking some of the emotional maturity that can start only from within themselves.

When we are looking for a partner from the place of what we ‘need’ instead of what we ‘want’, we might choose destructive relationships over and over again till we learn that happiness and contentment is an inside job. A partner should help us but we should help ourselves first.

Our unhealthy patterns will remain until we replace them with healthy ones.

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Break The Cycle of Unhealthy Relationships

Break The Cycle of Unhealthy Relationships. Turn your search for love into a road to personal freedom!

Girl with broken heart

When: July 28, 2010, 7-9pm
Address: YWCA Hotel, 733 Beatty Street, Vancouver

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Social at Serai – July 8th, 2010

Join our sophisticated party at Serai Social Club. Newly renovated, this warm and welcoming place is ideal spot to catch up with your friends and meet new ones.

Serai Social Club

WHEN: July 8th, 2010, 6pm

WHERE: Serai Social Club,
1660 Cypress Street
Vancouver, BC V6J 5J1
604.734.1660

Serai, a lodging place for traveling merchants in the past, is synonymous with being a great meeting place of different cultures; a place to relax and recuperate; have intelligent conversations; and be social.

Offering a warm and friendly environment, Serai attracts interesting involved people. If you are on the hunt for a novel social concept in Vancouver come and see it yourself.

On July 8th Serai is opening it’s welcoming doors for us. Bring your business cards (if you have ones), make friends and mingle. Meet other sophisticated, intelligent like-minded businesspersons who are single and open to new meetings. It’s a fairly quiet atmosphere, which is good for chatting.

Expect good DOOR PRIZES ! (SEO website evaluation, Thai Spa Gift certificate, Wine tour for two and a free ticket to the workshop “Break The Cycle of Unhealthy Relationships”)

The dinner menu is broad but they are also doing creative small plates and servers are happy to match the right glass of wine with each course.

Be yourself – mingle, flirt, discuss business ideas, learn about potential leads and garner future contacts over a glass of wine in a nice elegant setting.

If you would like to get info about upcoming events, subscribe to my mailing list or join Vancouver Single Professionals group.

See you there,

Tatiana

Join our sophisticated party at Serai Social Club. Newly renovated, this warm and welcoming place is ideal spot to catch up with your friends and meet new ones.

Serai, a lodging place for traveling merchants in the past, is synonymous with being a great meeting place of different cultures; a place to relax and recuperate; have intelligent conversations; and be social.

Offering a warm and friendly environment, Serai attracts interesting involved people. If you are on the hunt for a novel social concept in Vancouver come and see it yourself.

On July 8th, 6pm Serai is opening it’s welcoming doors for our meetup group. Bring your business cards (if you have one), make friends and mingle. Meet other sophisticated, intelligent like-minded businesspersons who are single and open to new meetings. It’s a fairly quiet atmosphere, which is good for chatting. You can come earlier, if you want, the door will be open

The dinner menu is broad but they are also doing creative small plates and servers are happy to match the right glass of wine with each course.

Be yourself – mingle, flirt, discuss business ideas, learn about potential leads and garner future contacts over a glass of wine in a nice elegant setting.

See you there,

Tatiana

SATURDAY Wine Tour – June 19th, 2010

One of great ways to meet like-minded people is doing something that you enjoy.

There was another opportunity to combine learning and pleasure – come and enjoy wine tasting tour – together with other sophisticated singles!

On JUNE 19th we were pickup up and taken to Langley’s countryside to visit premiere wineries and vineyards – four of the Fraser Valley’s best picks:

* Domaine de Chaberton Estate Winery
* Township 7
* The Fort Wine Co.
* Well Seasoned



We had lunch at the at Domaine de Chaberton’s award-winning Bacchus Bistro overlooking the vineyard ($20 – price included tax and gratuity)

Regular price for this tour is $49 + tax, but I’ve got 10 tickets for this tour at 50% off.

The discount was offered by Enjoy Tour and Travel, a Vancouver tour company focused on local tourists. Enjoy Tour and Travel was founded by Troy Opper in 2007. Troy has a passion for food and wine and is a fan of bringing like minded people together. Popular tours include SATURDAY Wine Tour, Seattle Mariners Baseball, A Taste of BC ~ Food & Wine Tour andGulf Islands Day Tour.

The tour was wonderful, we met great people and fully enjoyed our Saturday!


Pre-Valentine’s Day Social!

martini glassFind a Valentine in Vancouver 2010


Would you like to get excited, work up a sweat, or feel the adrenaline rush in Vancouver 2010 without watching or attending an Olympic Event?

Get serious people – It’s Valentines!

If you want to meet someone special BEFORE Valentine’s Day, here is the opportunity to come out and meet your new Valentine!


Bring your business cards (if you have one), make new friends and mingle. Meet other sophisticated, intelligent like-minded businesspersons who are single, and open to a new Valentine.

So.cial at Le Magasin in Gastown is one of my favorite places. Located in the exquisite 1911 Gastown heritage building; has dark with moderate lighting, red walls, wooden columns, high, engraved ceilings. It’s a fairly quiet atmosphere, which is good for chatting.

The dinner menu is broad but they are also doing creative small plates and servers are happy to match the right glass of wine with each course.

There are two parkades nearby – off Water st. and off Cordova st, but I would recommend to just take public transit, because it’s going to be quite busy downtown, there will be no street parking available.

The Waterfront skytrain station is 3 min away by foot.

WHERE: So.cial At Le Magasin
332 Water St, Vancouver, BC
604.669.4488

WHEN: Thursday, Feb 11, 7 pm-10 pm

*How to find us:  Look for the glowing heart
*Attire Dressy and “Sexy”
*Age Range: 25-45. If you look older, act younger, or lie about your age – you can come too!

Please RSVP to tatiana@charismamatters.com

See you there!