Handling Rejection When Approaching New Women (Guest Post)

This is a guest post by Dating Advice  Coach HogWild

Many guys get scared off from approaching new women because they create scenarios in their brains where the beautiful female yells at them or swears at them or files a complaint with her local television news program and they do a feature on you called, “Creepy Guys. Can they be stopped?”

But guys, your apprehensions are exaggerated compared to the real world.

Generally, this lady will speak with you. Sure, it’s possible that she might not do cartwheels and a cheerleading routine celebrating your arrival, but if she’s mentally stable, she will give you some kind of opportunity. If this woman is exhausted from men approaching her and you seem dull, she might end the conversation prematurely but she will be courteous.

If the woman is super annoyed or she’s just a mean you-know-what, then she may roll her eyes at you or tell you to take a long walk off a short plank into a cold ocean. But that is not typical and it usually has to do with her personality or her emotional state at the time.

So here is what to do if a girl is very mean to you:

If a girl is simply obnoxious to you, let her know that you recognize her insolence.

You can loudly proclaim, “Attention all within a mile radius! This girl is impertinent and irreverent as well a big meanie! She’s definitely more important than everybody else here!” Then laugh.

Now she’s feeling rather silly and if you’re clearly joking about it all, she will most likely break down and laugh at herself while saying sorry to you. If you are being angry about it, she will not apologize and she is likely to look into your eyes right before spraying mace into them.

A different way to react to a rude rejection is this:

Find a way to compliment her on her directness and boldness. Laugh it off and keep talking with her as if she hasn’t rejected you, but she obviously doesn’t know how cool you are.

The important thing to remember is that she has “rejected” you because she has does not yet know how awesome you are!

That is why you have to show her! You need to quickly demonstrate your intelligence, talent, humor, success, sense of family, etc. through your conversation, confidence, and appearance.

Beautiful humans with boobies are approached very often. If they were super nice to everyone they would waste years of their lives listening to boring men they have no interest in. This would frustrate the woman as well as they guy who has no shot. This is why you must be different (and better) right away.

No matter what her reaction — good or bad — don’t take it personally. If you consistently get poor reactions, you just need to work to get better at showing off your great qualities faster.

Written by HogWild. His Professional Dating Advice videos have 2 million views on youtube.