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The Dating Coach Mantra – “Find Yourself- Find the One”

find yourselfThe road to finding a rich and fulfilling love relationship often seems littered with broken promises, dreams that lost their luster years ago, out-of-date wives tails, and too many failed diets.  As a relationship coach, I have heard scores of broken-hearted stories.

Many professional singles have resorted to “quick pics” online or in a 3 minute orchestrated interview at a downtown lounge.  Looking for someone else it’s easy to miss the vital truth: You won’t find the one – until you find yourself.

No one can be for you, what only you can be and become.  It’s an inside job.

This journey to your core, to knowing yourself and enjoying your own friendship and inner fire, is an adventure of self-discovery.  You become aware of yourself in ways you never dreamed possible, and with that revelation, you become aware of your world.

You don’t need a man to bring you flowers to fall in love; you only need a rosebush on your walk to work to remind you that the entire universe is in love with you, as you love yourself.

Find Yourself: A lifelong exploration and source of endless joy, insight and personal satisfaction.

And before you know it, while you forgot to think about it, the law of attraction that magnetically attracts to yourself more of  what you are, begins to parade potential partners before your eyes!

Dating Advice 101 – If you Find Yourself You Will Find the One

Find the OneFunny really. Many of my relationship coaching clients have spent years searching, sometimes frantically for the one who would light up their lives and fulfill their dreams of security and belonging.

Little did they know that once they connected within themselves, finding the right person to compliment what was already “going on” inside, was much easier than they thought.

It’s the Attractor Factor

“Chemistry” between two individuals is often surprising.  Although you will find it helpful to write down “who” you are looking to attract, when they arrive they often wear a different appearance or lifestyle than you may expect.

What draws you together is an intangible knowing, a wandering curiosity, a physical yearning. You may think you need a blond bombshell from California only to find out the redhead that works 3 streets east of your office is the dynamite to set you world on fire.

The actual search is over.  You no longer need to hunt.

You are on a collision course with a person ready to love you and be loved by you.

Our job is to find out how to be so in tune with our own resonance,  that the frequency is heard loud and clear by our lover, and they come running. Sometimes it takes patience though, your lover is being prepared – and things of the heart can take some time.

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