I have been in the same situation as you are in right now.
So WHY did I keep finding the same guy over and over again?
He wore different clothes, had a different job and the color or his hair or eyes varied, but the essence of the person was the same.
It took me some time, but I figured it out.
I was raised by a single mom who made it her life mission to take care of everyone. At the time, that looked good to me. So I had an internal magnet actively seeking men who needed a lot of care. And trust me, I found them!
One day, I hit the rock bottom and decided that it’s time to start living my own life. I wasn’t happy with men, maybe I could be happy with me? It was a revolutionary thought. My life changed and my internal happiness meter soared. Now my magnet is set to attract happy people, whether for dating, work, friends or contacts – my world is reflecting my inside condition.
I fell in love. I fell in love with myself.
This process took time, and I needed help. I worked with numerous self-help courses, took countless personality assessments and most importantly, I worked tirelessly with a coach. She helped me discover who I was, what I valued, and what I could give to the world. Once the foundation of personal value and worth was established, my coach helped me to discover just what kind of person I wanted to meet.
Change of behavior
I no longer required some needy guy to offer me the feeling of self-worth, or confirm to me that I was able to love unconditionally. I found that I was worth my own attention, and that the unconditional love I sought, had to begin with me.
Will you join me on this journey?
If you take the time, allow yourself to open to new ideas, do the work involved to become honest with yourself – you will fall in love, and that love will be reciprocated beyond your wildest dreams! Once you are truly at peace and happy inside with you, your internal magnet will actively pursue your heart’s desire.
Once I found my own heart, my lover found me.
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