Your perfect love match!
When it comes to meeting a special someone, what are the most important qualities you look for in your perfect love match?
Before you answer this question, I want you to take this perspective – think for a moment how YOU decide whether you like a person or not. Consider everything that matters to you – their look, personality, manners, intelligence, attitude, etc. Be assured that everyone else is looking for the same qualities in you, because they are also looking for their perfect love match.
In order to attract a person who gets you, who is right for you, you have to develop yourself in all the same areas; your soul, your thoughts and your appearance should be aligned and well presented.
Perfect love match tips
A long time ago I read a book that offered a phrase that stuck with me for the rest of my life. The author said that problems in our relationships are caused by discrepancy between what we think, what we say and how we act.
From that moment I started to work on bringing all those attributes together. I started to tell people how I felt, I stopped giving promises which I wasn’t able to keep and started to resist negative thoughts about other people… and I’ve got a lot of inner peace.
I started to feel better about myself. I became happy and had some respect for myself. I stopped breaking my promises, was able to admit when I was judging people. Gradually my bad habits diminished as I practiced my new mantra:
• Watch what I am thinking
• Watch what I am saying
• Watch my own behavior in action
I gave myself the opportunity to express my real emotions and feelings and I was able to ask for what I wanted.
People began to think of me as of a more solid, honest person and I started to attract people and situations, that I became comfortable with – honest, nice people, and situations that moved me towards my goals. My world became full of people who shared compassion, laughter, positive energy, hope and personal responsibility.
The past wasn’t as pretty
No, not all my partners were good for me, in fact I most of my life I met needy, high maintenance partners. I had my own reasons for attracting these men. My childhood helped me develop behavior patterns that equipped me to attract a certain type of people.
We all are looking for a person, who has a solid path in life and knows what he or she wants. They have an understanding for the relationship and intimacy they want in life, and are not afraid to ask for it. People who know what they want are also capable of giving much more to someone else. But before you meet them, you must first become this person.
Exercise: Are you the perfect love match? How attractive are you? Rate yourself from 1-3.
- Good looks
- Good Weight
- Good Health
- Financial security
- Positive outlook
- Sense of Humor
- Fulfilling career
- Great friends
- No addictions
- Social Skills
- Thoughtful of others
- Emotionally stability
- Rich spiritual life